So you want to have a nice friendly cat, but he or she seems to be pretty much aggressive or tend to bite when you try to show affection?

Well, you're not alone. This is one of the most frustrating problems faced by cat owners everywhere when it comes to cat behavior and friendliness.

Physical touch is a very important part of cat bonding, and if we don't have it, we sure feel as if we're missing out on something.

So we must start off with realising that there are 3 types of cat aggression:

1. Offensive aggression.

This is the "overstimulated cat syndrome" as affectionately known in cat circles, but is really seen in 2 common situations.

It can either be caused by stroking your cat a too firmly or for too long, in an otherwise well socialised cat.

Or it's caused by even slight stimulation in a not well socialised cat.

2. Playful stalking.

This is usually your cat trying to tell you something.

Either she's hungry and hasn't been fed enough, she wants to play and hasn't had enough, or wants to go out to do a pee (for outdoor cats).

3. Defensive aggression.

This is more serious and can mean a medical condition is present. Your cat bites but then runs away to hide under the bed. The main distinction here is the withdrawal. See your vet if you think that defensive aggression is possible.

So have a close look next time and see which type of cat aggression is being displayed by your cat.

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For defensive aggression remember, consult your vetenarian.

For playful stalking or offensive aggression, you'll can teach your cat to enjoy you touching him and to stop him from biting you when you do!